Latitude of Arousal: My Clinical Framework for Understanding Sexual Desire

Working with couples requires ongoing exploration of sexual behavior and satisfaction within intimate relationships. As a relationship therapist, I would be doing my clients a disservice if I avoided asking questions about sexual habits and satisfaction in their relationship. And so, I dig in with questions like, Who initiates sex most often? If you areContinue reading “Latitude of Arousal: My Clinical Framework for Understanding Sexual Desire”

The Nest We Built

Through seasons in pairs, they come and go and come again, returning to spring with predictable stubbornness. Digging claws into roots. Perching. Planting. Pecking. Sucking. Buzzing in the new season when bright green stems grow in the old field to remind us how busy the birds and bees have been.Summer comes with its fiddleheads andContinue reading “The Nest We Built”